As an experience gatherer, I must tell you, that all the good things in life come as surprises. When things are planned they’re often not as good, and often not as genuine. Sometimes things come out of nowhere and can morph into something you hadn’t planned. But the thing about surprises is that they often take their time. So when something good comes along, cherish it. Take the time to build it. If that’s what you’re into. And if you’re not, dear sir, I’m afraid you must keep moving.
I’ve found, dear sir, that as an experience gatherer, the most important thing is to be true to yourself. And truthfully, I don’t need anyone who doesn’t need me.