You and I may not rhyme –
But we are my favorite words.
I felt a little philosophical today as I was driving home from St. Lewis. That usually happens when I’m driving, and this time I just decided to record my thoughts as I was driving rather than stop and write it down (or just forget). I was thinking about relationships, and how people change when they join themselves with another person. We all say we won’t change, that we’ll still be the same person. But we do change. Life becomes about that person, our opinions change, our values change to fit that person’s needs and wants.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying this with an entirely negative cast. I’m just saying it happens. Observing, if you will.
I kept mauling over the same thoughts in my head.. about being on a constant quest to find someone who fits into our lives. Is that what we’re living for? Is that what I’m living for?
Maybe it’s time to stop looking and just…be.